Who you’ll be talking to

I’m Gino.
Let’s get
beneath it.

A gay psychotherapist and writer, with South African roots and an international perspective. Direct, curious, and interested in the whole person.

Gino Cosme

How I got here

From how life looks
to how it feels.

I trained in psychology in South Africa and completed postgraduate clinical work in Portugal. Before moving into psychotherapy full time in 2015, I worked in search and digital strategy.

That earlier career sharpened my interest in performance: what people show to the world, what stays out of view, and the distance that can develop between the two. My clinical work is concerned with the person living in that distance.

I work with gay men around shame, identity, relationships, body image, anxiety and the private cost of appearing fine. I bring psychodynamic, attachment-based and relational perspectives to that work, informed by minority stress.

I am based between London and Lisbon, and work online in English across multiple time zones.

The way I work

Your sexuality isn’t a footnote.
Your whole story belongs here.

There is room for complexity, uncertainty and things you have not said out loud before. We pay attention to what is happening now, how it came to make sense, and what a different response might look like.

Professional background

A specialist practice.
A human conversation.

  • BACP registration: 00993851
  • HPCSA registration: PRC 0034622
  • NCPS registration: 597

View my BACP profile ↗

I also write Unfiltered Clarity, a publication on the psychological patterns that shape gay men’s lives.

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where you are.

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