Gino Cosme / A specialist gay therapist for gay men

A gay therapist.
Space to be
yourself.

You can have a life that looks good and still feel far from yourself. I’m Gino. I'm a therapist who helps gay men make sense of what’s underneath the challenges many of us face.

WHO YOU’LL BE TALKING TO / GINO COSME Gino Cosme, gay therapist and writer
A human conversation. A different starting point. 01
BACP registered · 00993851 HPCSA registered · PRC 0034622 10+ years working with gay men Online · In English

You don’t have to
explain the context.

The pressure to be desirable. The distance between being liked and feeling known. The private cost of appearing fine.

Being gay is part of the starting point here. Together, we look at the ways you learned to protect yourself, relate to others, and move through the world.

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Work with me

Two ways to
move forward.

Different kinds of work. A shared attention to the person you are, and the life you want to live.

01 / Psychotherapy

Understand what
keeps repeating.

Clinical work with emotional and relational difficulties. Space for your history, your patterns, and what is difficult to put into words.

Online · €135/£115 per session · Selected countries

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02 / Coaching

Choose a more
deliberate direction.

Focused, non-clinical work on identity, relationships and personal development. A structured space to consider what comes next.

Online · Available worldwide

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From the writing desk

Words for what
you’ve been feeling.

Explore the library ↗
01

Why more friends won’t fix gay loneliness

Connection
02

Minority stress in gay men

Emotional life
03

Grindr, compulsion, and what’s underneath

Sex & self

You can begin
where you are.

Find your starting point